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you know that little green guy that lives in the panel? it just logs me out. how do I get the shutdown suspend hibernate logout dialog? I can't find it.
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a) xfce4 menu
b) rightclick the action button you described and change its settings to another action (like shutdown)
c) add another action button to the panel for your action
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1) You maybe don't have policikit / hal configured (forum search)
2) I remember that you don't get the dialog either if you don't have the necessary parts installed. That might have been just xfce4-power-manager or something else... no idea what exactly.
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