I can start sshd by running "/etc/rc.d/sshd start", is there a way to automate it so it loads when my computer boots? Do I add "sshd" to my daemons section in rc.conf?
any daemon you want to have come up at boot just list it in the DAEMONS=() array in rc.conf.
be aware though that sometimes the order of the daemons in the list will make a difference to a daemon actually starting or not. (ie many network stuff may not work if they are listed before the network daemon)
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