I just did an nmap of an arch box running mysql, but port 3306 isn't open. mysql is certainly running and local processes have no problem accessing it.
There are no entries in rc.allow or rc.deny, and I'm not running iptables.
# Don't listen on a TCP/IP port at all. This can be a security enhancement,
# if all processes that need to connect to mysqld run on the same host.
# All interaction with mysqld must be made via Unix sockets or named pipes.
# Note that using this option without enabling named pipes on Windows
# (via the "enable-named-pipe" option) will render mysqld useless!
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